She is just 19 very clever and hard working, but a family like her family will hold any one back, can you hel

She's 19 so she's an adult - why are you looking for someone to 'take her'? From what you've said, she sounds like a mature and well-rounded person who could cope on her own. Why don't you help her get a job (if she hasn't already got one) and a place to live. If her own family has let her down then it's unlikely that strangers will be any better - she should show them that she can go it alone and make something of herself. She'll find someone to be with and have her own family one day and then she can be the parent that she wanted her own parents to be.